The End of Isolation?
Thursday, February 5, 2009 at 4:40AM Stuart Wilde
I had a strange vision of one-room apartments in a tower block one on top the other except the apartments were not exactly stacked vertically they were more left and right of center, like children’s building blocks stacked up. Each apartment seemed to have a big hole in the outside wall. The tower went up quite high and I remember thinking it didn’t look stable.
Apartment building, Yaletown, Vanouver
Then I walked past this building site a few days later and there were the holes in the apartments and I noticed the curved not-vertical nature of them. It was bloody strange as I’d seen this a few days before in my vision.
I think the vision speaks of several things. I feel the isolationism that the human ego created for us was really a terrible curse. We needed to go there to work through our false sense of specialness and importance and realize it was hopeless, as we doomed ourselves to a cold world with few real friends and little contact beyond social niceties
The little rickety boxes speak to me of a world that is teeter tottering on the brink; it will all have to change in the end. For if it does not we will never stitch our souls back together in time.
I have said that our spiritual journey is just four feet long. One foot from our head to our heart and three feet out to embrace the first person we meet.
And the holes in the concrete in the building seem to me to speak of the sadness of our loss and confusion and loneliness, as if to say there is an icy wind blowing through a hole in our chest. Humans were designed to thrive as part of a tribe in a collective, once the dog-eat-dog idea took hold we wound up with no more dogs, in the sense that we all became victims of our ego and the global-ego. Our values were abducted by the demonic, and dark beings could whisper themes of doubt and desolation to bring us down and lose hope.
It could be that a world-wide crisis is part of the fall or end of isolationism and the restoration of tribal links as people and families will have to band together and help each other. Maybe it is a part of the ‘Healing Warm’ I speak of in my book Grace, Gaia and the End of Days. The Healing Warm is a celestial power that we have seen in visions that brings respite to humanity from their pain.
We have to go out and find people and let them in and make sure they know they are absolved and loved and we have to open up and let them find us. Remember I said in the Art of Redemption you either collapse your ego’s ivory tower voluntarily or it collapses you.
The cure for isolation is acceptance once you can accept people unconditionally you will want to re-establish contact. You will crave to carry your soul home from whence it came to those you knew and loved.
Make it a discipline to make contact with people you have lost from the past, people that may need your warmth and company. If you care for others, people will care for you. (SW)
©Stuart Wilde 2009
www.stuartwildeblog.com






Reader Comments (45)
It is no real feat to take the four feet down to two feet
and make the two feet into four feet or even six feet
if we find the feet for such a simple feat.....
nice blog Stu...thankyou.....
Thank you, Stuart! This is exactly what I needed to hear right now, exactly what I was asking for.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
You are in our prayers each night and day, thank you for everything,
Feli
Dear Stuart,
thank you so much for your writings on this blog, it's like taking a warm shower of sunlight in the morning. I'm grateful for your help to bring me back from isolation, it was hard to go out, but once I found love it was easy to accept, that others care for me and want me to care for them.
Have a nice day, thank you
Dear Stuart,
this is beautiful and so so true... on monday at 7.30am i walked down the drive to check out the roads because we had about six inches of snow here...
lots of the neighbours were out and everyone was so friendly and chatty because the systems had broken down and we couldn't drive our cars or go to work.....
kids were helping adults to push cars out of the snow and strangers were becoming friends....
we laughed and smiled and were kind to each other in the snow simple, like children once again.... thank you, thank you... with so much lovex
The writtings here are needed by many including myself, a warm sense of purpose seems to flow through me whenever I read your writtings Stuart, many thanks. I see the peoples of the world running to and fro more swiftly now (dare I say lemming like). The so called economic crisis, the leaders of my country rushing to release funds to the masses in the hope we will not fall into recession. Some how I know it will only speed up the process, in my heart I feel for those caught up in the hype who cannot see the truth.
In the home page you mentioned subjects to write about. Initially I thought it silly to ask, but cannot get it out of my head. So I would like to hear your thoughts on the nature of reality, coming from a technical background it took me a numnber of years to move to a less rigid thought pattern. Some of the things you write about seem very strange to me, one day I hope to understand more.
Thankyou.
Most insightful piece for now....
and.... I love what you feel and say.
therefor.. I love YOU.
Dear Stuart,
Thank you very much for this post. What do you think of Facebook? Is it a good place to reestablish contacts with people you have lost touch with or perhaps deliberately isolate from?
Thank you very much, Wendy
todays piece has reminded me of my recurring dream, I call it my house of desolation, the first few times I had the dream I woke terrified my heart pounding disturbed to my core. The house has a couple of rooms which are ok, quite nicely decorated etc but beyond these rooms everything is black, falling apart and I know that very dark beings live there. This dream has remained pretty much the same for the past 2 years and always it was enough to wake me in a frightened state. Two weeks ago same dream with a twist, a couple of the black rooms had lightened enough to brave entering, there in one room was a brand new electric bicycle standing in the rooms centre, some very nice crockery on tables that had recently been used like a family had moved in ! Next a ghostly image appeared standing before me I felt quite drawn to speak so asked " would it be ok if I used any of the items in the rooms ?" The apparition replied " we will have to call a meeting to discuss it". End of dream.
Visions and dreams are interesting things and I wish I knew how to interpret them.......
Love to you Stu really enjoying your blog Jan in England
There was a great saying I heard the other week. If everyone lived tooth for a tooth and eye for an eye the whole world would be toothless and blind. It was from the movie/ musical 'Fiddler on the Roof'.
Thank you.
This blog is alive and vibrant and lovely.
There's a networking site that's all about having a friend in every city in the world so when you're travelling you can hook up. Wouldn't it be cool if you could connect with a fringe dweller in every city? You never know how many might already live on your street!?! :-)
Maybe a facebook group could be the start - Fringe Dwellers Reunited :-)
Love to all
x
Hi Stuart,
The wisdom in your writings is very healing. I never really believed any of the New Age teachers, but I believe you and have put into practice as much as I can of what you recommend. It seems that the people posting on this blog are friends/family in a sense. Rusty said - a warm sense of purpose seems to flow through me whenever I read your writtings Stuart. It is the same with me as it is with Rusty. This extrordinary knowledge and way of being that you lead us to - it seems life would become purposeless without it.
Ida
Mr. Wilde,
Observing my Ego in action has been a revelation for me. Such a profound relief to have ways to deal with my Ego explained to me. I am a big kid afterall. Simple, useful, and practical action is now appealing to me more and more. I've been making a conscious effort to dismantle this 38 year old edifice of Egocentric used parts in my life. As incredibly confronting and challenging as the work is, it is soooooo worth the effort!
Thankyou for posting such a prolific amount of work that is available on the Net, through the articles at your SW website, and now this blog. From about 2006-2008 I used the CD of Silent Power as my daily mantra. I've nearly completed my 1000 day journey - a path of perception offered in Whispering Winds of Change. I understand that the path never ends and that 1000 days is simply a metaphor for change and for miracles to be noticed.
The last 3 months of my life have been incredible. Very little has apparently changed on the outside - same job & hobbies. However! - inside I feel like I am on fire with love for Creation and the Divine Source that is manifesting gifts of understanding, passion and compassion everywhere I seek it. My friends and family are fun to be around and I'm getting new and interesting interactions with them. This profound happiness now arrives in my life from my mindset and heartset - geared occasionally by the writings and musings of SW ( and other inspirational thinkers). So much rarified kindling for the inner fire.
Yours words, Mr. Wilde, have poetry and power. To heal and transform. Thankyou, thankyou, thankyou...
Eternally grateful Namaste,
Darren.
Hello Stuart,
Any recommendations of a book that would cover the acts, thoughts, wants of the ego.
A reference guide to help identify when the ego has you in it's grips.
Dictionary / Thesaurus style or Diary of the Ego.
A simple to the point ABC kind of book .
Having a understanding of.... and it's workings would bring helpful awareness to it's slick ways.
If there is not a book like this out there, maybe you could whip one up.
Dictionary of the Ego or The Diary of the Ego
As at times, I am been blind to it's workings.
You are very appreciated,
Sent with Love,
Stephanie
Hello Stuart,
This is so nice! Thank you.
Thinking of you.
Much love,
A dainty peach fell off a tree
and hit my head and stopped my walk
I heard a whisper in the breeze,
get off your high horse and on your knees.
I did as asked and felt the sun
and never since
felt the need to run.
Sometimes yet the whisper returns
'get off your knees and dance you turd'
So I danced alone and felt unwell
until the world arrived to the brink of hell
one day soon they will arrive to dance
and join the dream that always was,
one day soon we'll leave this hell
and return to where the magic is real.
Dearest Stuart-
Brilliant article and so spot on! As a healing facilitator, one of the tools I use is called the Emotion Code (TheEmotionCode.com), which addresses an energetic block called a Heart Wall. I'm working with my clients to remove trapped emotions from both their bodies and their Heart Walls, if they have one, which most people do. It is truly amazing to witness the Life Changing Transformations that occur when the Heart Wall starts to come down, as evidenced by the work I'm presently doing with a client/friend. Her face changes, her relationships are changing, she's becoming more open to the possibilities of life again. There seems to be an element though of unsureness whether they're/we're going to continue to be "safe" if we let our walls down. Clearly, I am not the only one watching for the changes.
In Harmony & Gratitude,
Penny
Dear Stuart Wilde,
Thanks for the information once again. I am virtually 3 or 4 times here. The article today further lead me to this information which i think could be a supplementary info other readers.
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I love you all..
Hi Stuart,
Thank you again for your words of wisdom.
I have one question in regards to contacting souls that we have lost contact with.
What if it was for a reason that your Inner Self warned you about? Sometimes it is for a reason that you cannot ignore for your own growth or benefit as well as theirs.
And then Stuart there is that magic number of 6% souls with Soul energy.
I find that no matter how hard I try to cope and balance when I am amoung cetain people, the ones without soul energy just drains me so I try to spend as little time in their company as I can if at all. I do not judge or dislike them I just am aware of how their energy affects me. It often makes me sick to the stomoch and any positive emotioms spent in their direction only keeps me safe but has no effect on them. Cold eyes. Weird smells. I always walk away shaking my head and with sadness in my heart for them. Not sending them any negative emotions but radiating love or nothingness even from afar has worked for me all the time and I can sense their "wondering" about me as I make a safe retreat.
Because of this I am often ..once I am done working for the day( I run around being of service to the sick and dying) at home working on my spiritual self but that is something I do best alone. It has always been that way for me ..I had to reawaken the true knowledge one book at a time..one mistake at a time etc..with Spirit as my constant companion and guide. I am not in any competition ,race or showmanship to prove who or what I am or can or cannot do to anyone. My pace is my own and I am less distracted or conflicted this way. I don't know if this is ego..maybe a little of it is but it has served for me to grow spiritually of that I am sure.The souls that I am meant to help or to serve find me regardless of my isolation and in the most unlikely of situations. Spirit is truely wise and with my determination It has led me to you as a teacher I can trust to enable my growth.
So with that said how do you choose.? Do you make contact with ALL because I am not so sure that I would like a human ghoul for a friend or to keep in touch with one who is ..not with the experiences I have had with that kind of energy.
Await your responce.
Paulette
It is true Paulette some people you have to let them go
but in essence the idea is to stretch out and make contact with humans and laugh and dance...okay bye for now stuart wilde
Stuart I have been reading your writings for years now and they spoke to a deeper part of me and often made me laugh about things we get up to :)
Just finished reading the book "Journey of Souls" by Michael Newton and a lot of missing pieces fell into place for me.
Hello their brother wilde.Thank you for all that you have done to help me along this journey.It"s great to see these new sites up running, and your willingness to put yourself on the line and share your visions and wisdom,thank you again,In 1993 i was working on a on electrical project and received a large shock accross my chest,life change from that moment,i had many strange things happen to me and really could not funtion in life that well,while this was happening i had 2 deep dreams the world would face its graetest challenge in 22 years from the the day of the dreams,i was 22 and it was in march 1993,a healer came to see me at that time and said my master number was 22 and i would face my greatest challenge in 22 years,and from that time 22 has poped up in my life many many times,any time i would cheak the time it would be 22 past the hour etc.I have a feeling things are going to get very cold here where we are.Sorry if this sounds really random and isn"t on the topic but it feels very real to me.I'm still dancing with my shadow,and any comment would be great. Thank You all the best kelly beach
Dear Stuart
This resonates a lot. I've been looking after my husband who has severe Alzheimers Disease. If it hadn't been for the help of my lovely family and friends, I would have crumbled. This society is so isolated and fragmented (as well as pathetic and cruel when it comes to the care of dying ones), they don't give a damn about you, but just pay lip service. I wouldn't say I'm disillusioned; on the contrary, my eyes are fully opened to just how deceitful those "in power" in tick tock, really are.
Note to Penny Bush: I'm working on tearing down my "Heart Wall" ~ I remember putting it around my heart when I was 17 and at boarding school. I thought it would protect me from getting hurt again but it just makes you appear cold and aloof. It's got to go!
Love to you all.
Cynthia
So I look at the apartment complex and see a spine. Cold and built by the matrix. Basically I think this is found in a majority of the people I know and meet. God bless them they try hard to be good (some), but they don't know that ego is blocking any light that blips in and out of their world.
Still we are all guided, and you have to love the higher powers that be for giving us clues that eventually can be interpreted if we get bored of the matrix and become seekers.
When we're kids...teens...we all have dreams and are in this world of possibilities and dreams. Eventually the dreamers (fools) fade. Ugh...adulthood. So the dreamers that stay dreamers fighting the matrix, stand alone eventually.
It's hard to see any good when you are stuck in this repetitive life and expected to conform. In some cases I believe that to protect we do tend to isolate. Not because of psychological mumbo jumbo (poor life). But for protection of the majority of people we encounter. I do anyhow I feel that pain you talk about from everyone I encounter.
Don't get me wrong I jump out of my safety daily, but at the end of the day I cleanse. I help everyone I encounter. I live and love. Remembering everyday is heaven that's why I'm here. Hopefully we can effect as many lives as we can. I do daily.
Thanks Stuart for reminding me daily. If you can do this why can't we hidden ones :D
+Angel
Hi Stuart,
So true that we need to open up to help people find us. My own opening up has lead me to find you and for this I am truly and eternally grateful. I now realize that I was never alone, are not alone now and will never ever be alone...You remind me of this everytime I read your books and look at your writings here on this blog.
I am a devoted student to you and forever will be. I am so happy that our paths have crossed and our energies have danced and in such a magical way too! I hope that our energies keep on dancing along all the way to our one day meeting one another in actual person. I would be honored to shake your hand and say;
'hello, I am Ana! And it’s so great to finally meet you after what has felt like an eternity!
Where have you been all my life!? Thank you that you are now a part of it forever and
ever!'
I cannot express my gratitude to and faith in God and life for you and your existence enough.
Thank you in so many ways.
My love and gratitude to you and to all,
Ana
Peace, the only weapon.
Freedom, the only goal.
Truth, the only search.
Love, the only way!
Respect Stu
OM